Friday, 2 August 2013

तुम्ही हो बंधू सखा तुम्ही

I read a story about “FRIENDSHIP”…..
In a class room, student asked”what is friendship”?
The teacher said “Go to field and choose what that appears nice to you”.
The student went to a field and started scanning the field, he has picked many grains that suited his taste and came back to the teacher.
The teacher told him “You looked for one that is just nice for you, and did not look for the best. That is FRIENDSHIP.” 

Today while watching the song “TUMHI HO BANDHU SAKHA TUMHI” from the movie COCKTAIL on a music channel, it was flashing on screen that 4th August, 2013 is friendship day. So it simply came to my mind instead of only wishing all my friends, I will wish them my gratitude through my blog. In this beautiful world, throughout my life I made many friends. But best of them are very few. When all the unforgettable moments came to my mind, I decided to use permanent marker through my blog to keep you all permanent in my life forever.

Time never build any relation. If feelings are truly from heart, then two people become friends. Like I met my first friend at the age of 5.She was Sheela (aka Nandini). We spent almost 3 years together in Adaspur, Odisha. As a kid no one understands what is friendship….but still we were together, b’coz that made us happy. At that time she was a charming gardener who make me blossom like a beautiful flower.

As per my father’s transferable job I moved to Bhubaneswar. There I went to Saraswati Sishu Mandir School. I made lots of friends. But again after 4 years I had to change my school b’coz of my father’s transfer.
But thanks to Social networking sites, I again get in touch with these friends after a long gap.

Graduation is a time when you got your freedom to live your life on your own terms. For me graduation was an unforgettable trip. I went to study computer engineering in College of Engineering, Bhubaneswar. In this phase, your parent, teachers, siblings may guide you….but mostly you need friends “oh bolte hain na dost hi hote hain jo pass karne ko madad karate hain” (without cheating no one can pass exam)….just kidding guys. Going to college, bunking classes, having fun @canteen, study tour, picnic that 4 years each day was amazing.


Here I got treasure of friendship. I made lots of friends. But some of them became special like Manasi, Madhusmita, Preeti still remain in my heart and they will remain. I remembered we used to go Madhu’s place for group studies. Instead of study we had fun, jokes, going movies on our scooties especially on heavy rainy days. One could find our group easily @ Rupalisquare while enjoying chat and gupchup.

Here I met one girl, Swati Swagatika. I met different kind of people in my life. But still I never met a girl like you. You tolerated my foolishness, my anger, my sorrow and my happiness. Its b’coz of you I understood the responsibility of life. Thanks for coming to my life.

One more girl I don’t wanna miss. It’s Pallabi. In 4 years of college we were just hi...hello friends. But suddenly after marriage our bonding grew and still it’s going on…

Whenever I think of fun, naughty and kind, your name and image instantly come to my mind. Thank you for being so kind especially when I was struggling for my career in Hyderabad. I still remember your words” Never underestimate yourself. With a small step you can change your life. Have faith in god”. It’s you Amit.

Now living in urban city like Pune, where everyone is busy day and night. Sometimes people don’t have time to spend with their family. I got surprised to know from people that they don’t even know who their neighbor is. Here I am lucky to made few friends who understand me. It is said that a friend in need is a friend indeed. Thanks for sharing a cup of tea of friendship, B’coz when we are thirsty, it’s our best choice right ladies (Sukhwinder, Meghna GitaHema, Shilpi)…..

Last but not the least, how can I forget you my dear husband. Thanks for being my best friend.
No need to say anything,b'coz you understand me.

Until through the journey of life, I made lots of friends. Out of which I picked few and I may have missed some, but still they have contributed a lot in my life. I wish all the best to all of you and wish to meet again in future through the journey of life.